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I had been reading about cuckolding for a few months and something definitely resonated-  I had always imagined, while my bf and I were having sex, that I was someone else-  a stranger, a friend, a relative -who was actually fucking my bf.  I know it sounds fucked up but in my head that was always the fantasy-  That my bf was cheating on me and I was the guy he was cheating with-I just thought I had some weird fantasy but come to find out not only did it have a name but I wasn’t alone!  I was nervous to tell my bf about it thinking he would believe I was crazy- !  Plus he was pretty vanilla- We had a few threeways but that was years ago-  plus I was nervous that when fantasy meets reality it doesn’t always go the way it does in your head-  but after months of “research” (me jerking off to cuck tumblrs)  I thought I needed to experience it.  As a first step I confided in my best friend- Joe- what I had been thinking about and what my past fantasies involved. He seemed very supportive and didn’t flinch when I told him-  I just read about that he told me, it’s actually pretty common in the gay community and even in the hetero one.  I felt immediate relief-  So what are you thinking he asked?  I don’t know-  I honestly replied-  I guess I need to tell him and then find a “bull”? I said trying to use the lingo-  He smirked-  I…… dunno about that – he seemed worried- I’m not sure you should tell him-  Maybe a better route would be to set up a situation where it seems to naturally happen and let it “play out”  – I hadn’t thought about this, and the more I did the more it kind of made sense-  at least I wouldn’t have to have an awkward conversation with him about me wanting him to have sex with someone while I watched-  but who and how would I get it to work?  Almost as if he could hear my thoughts Joe spoke up-  So for the sake of an example lets say you wanted to watch me fuck Mike-  You could invite me over for cards-  we all have a few drinks, I bring a joint- then we start playing truth or dare-  you dare me, well to start off, you say Joe I dare you to make out with Mike- that would give him permission to enjoy it because it is coming from you-  He might look at you a little weird but he’d be buzzed and stoned and would go with it-  that breaks the ice and the next time I dare him to suck my dick and you nod to him letting him know it’s cool-  So I take heat for the big dare but he feels ok because you give him signals it’s all good-  He smirked and I realized I was rubbing my hard dick through my jeans-  Guess you really are a cuck bud-  We laughed-  So you’d really be ok with doing this I asked Joe-  Well I was just using myself as an example-  I mean I haven’t really thought about it but sure- Mike is a good looking guy and as a favor to you-  Yea.  You want me to come over Friday?  So Friday arrives and Mike is already buzzed before Joe even arrives and I think this might be even easier than thought-  We haven’t had sex in four days and both of us are really horny-  Joe brings a fat joint and suggests we play truth or dare-  OMG I haven’ played that since junior high -Mike slurs- Lets do it!  After some lame question and answers – I ask my bf Truth or Dare-  he finally chooses Dare and out of the corner of my eye I see Joe adjust his crotch-  I gulp and look at Mike- I dare you to ……. make out with Joe-  His curious grin drops and he cocks his head and smiles- well guess shit just got real- we all bust out laughing and I’m grateful there is not awkward silence-  He walks over to Joe and looks at me –  I’m smiling and nervous not sure what I just did-  Joe grabs him by the waste and as their lips meet my stomach sinks-  It’s slow and sensual- not really what I imagined- they’re small kisses at first before they stop pulling back and are now sharing each others tongues-  My bf’s hands slowly wrap around joes back and their heads switch positions but their lips do not separate-  Joes hands drop from Mikes waste to wind up on Mikes ass-  I’m sitting there feeling more and more like this was a mistake, feeling left out- wondering why they are still making out-  I’m about to say stop when Joe pulls back and breaks their kiss-  I try to put back the smile on my face but it feels forced and I don’t know where to look or what to say-  Feeling completely sober- I polish off my beer that had been only a quarter empty.  For a second there is silence before Joe says-  Well thank you buddy-  that was a gift- and him and Mike laugh and I chuckle.  The next one is for my bf and I- So he asks me Truth or Dare and I chose Dare now hoping to get in on some of the action thinking my bf might dare me to do something with Joe- even though I had never imagined fucking around with my best friend after watching him with Joe the jealousy sparked my interest-  I dare you …… to watch me…… suck Joe’s cock!  Any pretense of me being amused has left my face and I’m visibly irritated-  He doesn’t make eye contact with me and is walking back over to Joe who is unzipping his pants and pulling out an impressively hard 8 inch cock-  Joe also is refusing to make eye contact and before I can say or do anything Mike is on his knees and Joes hand is behind my bf’s head fucking his mouth-  Mike is moaning, literally fucking moaning with my best friends cock in his mouth-  Um- not really sure it works this way I said meekly- neither of them seemed to be listening.  Oh fuck Joe moaned- before pulling my bf up off his knees and kissing him passionately-  Mike took his hand and they walked toward the bedroom -neither looking over at me-  I stood in the kitchen trying to process what just happened-  this was all crazy-  my bf just led my best friend to our bed and didn’t even look at me-  It was a game-  it had to be a game- I would walk in the bedroom and they would yell Got Ya!  Joe had told Mike about our conversation and even though they took it way too far they did it to get me-  I felt relief in my hypotheses and walked confidently to the bedroom-  For the third time that night my heart sank as I walked in and saw my best friend already balls deep in my boyfriend-  No game-  this was happening- My bf was whimpering –  which he’d never done when I fucked him but then again Joe’s cock was a at least 2 inches bigger than mine-  I saw no condom wrapper and watched as Joe was kissing Mikes neck and making love to him-  I tear fell down my cheek- and landed on my hand that was jerking my rock hard cock-  I didn’t remember unzipping my pants or starting to jerk off, it’s like I was outside of my own body watching this all-  I was beating off feverishly to my worst nightmare-  Soon Joe’s voice pulled me back to reality when he told my bf he was about to cum-  Mikes hands grabbed Joe’s ass and pushed him in deeper giving Joe full permission and direction where to deposit his load-  When Joe started moaning so did my bf and both of them came in unison-  My bf without even touching himself.  Joe collapsed on top of Mike and they stayed like that while I came-  When I started to moan Joe rolled off and they both looked at me like they had forgotten I was even there.  Finally my bf made eye contact with me –  I thought he would say something of an apology or explanation but it was only a question-  Can you get us a towel babe?

How To Get A Job Fast As Hell

cosmic-noir:

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rootbeergoddess:

theaugustinwonderland:

thechronicleofshe:

 @owenabbott​ 

  • Apply to a  job, wait (1) day, then call.  Give them your first and last name. Tell them you submitted an application and that you’re very motivated to find [Enter field name] work. Let the conversation lead you wherever it takes. Be very polite. Say” thank you for your time, I’ll be looking forward to hearing back from you.” Rinse, repeat. This is to force them to be looking out for your application. 
  •  When you get to the interview, shake their hand firmly,  tell them your first and last name.  
  • Describe your experiences  as “ two years transcription and data entry” if you have a desk job interview and “ [however many years]  costumer service, retail and stock” for your retail jobs.  
  • Don’t use job “ buzz words” I stg they hear them all day. Say  things like, “ I’m detail oriented and am very good at taking instruction.”  “ I would like to work for a company with integrity and I feel that [ company name] would be a good fit”
  • When they ask you if you have “reliable transportation” say  YES. don’t tell them what kind of transportation, just say yes. (if you don’t do this, you wont get the job , I’m telling you right now). 
  • Research the company. Know what they do, why they do it, how OLD the company is. WHERE it was founded, and what kind of position you’re intending to apply for.
  • When they ask you “ give us a situation where you had to blah blah blah” Make one the fuck up. Make yourself sound good as hell, and like you put your company’s needs slightly above the customer’s needs, but make the customer happy. 
  • If they ask you about being outgoing, Say you “like to focus on your work so you can concentrate on doing things right” (which buys you out of having to act friendly all the time)

Questions for after the interview:

1.  Does this position offer upward mobility?

2. Do you enjoy working for the company? (if you’re not interviewing for a temp agency who will send you anywhere)

  •  Then, shake their hand,  Ask them to repeat their name (REMEMBER THIS) say thank you for your time, wish them a nice day and leave. write their name down outside if you have to, just remember the fuck out of it. 
  • AFTER your interview, send a card directed to the name of the person who interviewed you (I’ll give you them) that says “Thank you for the interview, I appreciate the opportunity. have a great day” This shows  that you have an understanding of professionalism, and will have them thinking of you kindly (or at least remembering you) when they’re shuffling through the choices. 
  • DO NOT tell them you just moved to the city over the phone.  In person, tell them you just moved to the city. Make it sound like the only reason you need a job is because you moved. Not because you’re desperate. 

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 The titles of each section are key words you can use to search for jobs on Snagajob.com  and Simplyhired.

Data Entry:

  1. http://citystaffing.com/job/data-entry-specialistsmailroom-clerk/?utm_source=Indeed&utm_medium=organic&utm_campaign=Indeed
  2. https://www.roberthalf.com/officeteam/job-search/chicago-il/data-entry-clerks-needed/43517752?codes=IND
  3. http://www.simplyhired.com/job/data-entry-specialists-job/chicago-transit-authority/jepfivkhjk?cid=udsowkxtausyzitcfeecaeuzoxkltmbl
  4. https://jobs-theprivatebank.icims.com/jobs/3435/temporary—data-entry/job?mode=job&iis=SimplyHired&iisn=SimplyHired&utm_source=simplyhired&utm_medium=jobclick&mobile=false&width=792&height=500&bga=true&needsRedirect=false&jan1offset=-360&jun1offset=-300

 Front Desk:

  1. http://localjobs.joblur.com/jobapplication2/?jobid=99957&subaffid=300006&JobType=Food%20/%20Bev%20/%20Hosp&ix=1&c1=99957
  2. https://jobs.ajg.com/job/-/-/109/1256110?apstr=%26src%3DJB-10280
  3. https://pepper.hiretouch.com/job-search/job-details?jobID=32066&job=receptionist
  4. http://accesscommunityhealth.hodesiq.com/jobs/default.aspx?JobID=5203566 (this one is close to the place you rented.)
  5. http://ihg.taleo.net/careersection/all/jobdetail.ftl?job=R113601&lang=en&media_id=24863&src=Indeed&src=JB-10920
  6. https://covalentcareers.com/employer/listing/86450f8517588197c9b04f5068ed4300/detail/?apply=1&ref=indeed&v=30&utm_source=indeed&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=indeed_optical
  7. http://www.careerbuilder.com/jobseeker/jobs/jobdetails.aspx?APath=2.21.0.0.0&job_did=JHN0KY6823WBWZX21VM&showNewJDP=yes&IPath=JRKV0F
  8. http://www.simplyhired.com/job/front-desk-receptionist-customer-service-sales-job/rosin-optical-co-inc/qaeoquzgdi?cid=ivdnhijkmxchdanahwfoupazcwisfnxt
  9. http://www.simplyhired.com/job/receptionist-front-desk-job/all-us-jobs/fonj7wmldf?cid=trhyvmfcsgjltxkjxkemyinsjveewfjp

Other jobs you don’t need a degree for that aren’t retail:

  1. Dental hygenist ( yeah, seriously, who knew!) They also make about 40,000 a year)
  2. Stenographer-Court Reporter
  3. Surveyer ( you need a certificate for this, but its something you can get while working a temporary job and doing this on the side. Also, they make like $55,000 a year sooooooo) https://sjobs.brassring.com/TGWEbHost/jobdetails.aspx?jobId=1406428&PartnerId=16023&SiteId=5118&codes=IND
  4. Real Estate Broker
  5. Purchasing agents, except wholesale, retail, and farm products ( basically you arrange to buy large things) they make like 60K
  6. Claims adjuster 
  7. Loan Officer
  8. Subway driver (trains) they make like 60K,
  9. Duct Cleaner: http://jobview.monster.com/Duct-Cleaners-950-00-Weekly-Entry-Level-Flexible-Hours-Call-to-Apply-Job-Chicago-IL-US-161970321.aspx?intcid=re

I knew this but I’m reblogging cause someone might not know

I’m saving this.

This helped me get a job

Reblogging again for everyone!

Ten Things a Dom Expects a sub to know without being told

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instructor144:

instructor144:

(this piece needed some cleanup and formatting, so I’m reposting it)

i reblogged a wonderful piece a few days ago,  “ten things a sub expects a dom to know without being told.” A really good piece, strong and thought provoking.But as is so often the case here on Tumblr, the emphasis is the same as it is in a porn flick: “It’s all about the girl.” So I decided that this called for a counterpoint to balance the dialectical scales and possibly even spur some discussion. Those who have read the piece I reblogged will recognize some of these 10 items as being more or less identical to the items in that piece. This is by design, and is intended to emphasize that so much of the glue that holds a D/s relationship together is reciprocal.

And so without further ado …

“ten things a dom expects a sub to know without being told”

1. He needs to be the priority. Your Dominant cannot be put in the corner and trotted out when you need him. Make him your priority even during those
times when you think you DON’T need him. Because the truth of it is, even during those times, you secretly do need him, you just aren’t consciously
aware of it. 

2. He has emotions and needs them acknowledged. The internet (and Tumblr is especially egregious in this regard) has created the toxic stereotype of
the Dominant as this calm, cold, unemotional Olympian figure who is always as in charge of himself as he is of his submissive. Many a submissive has
run screaming into the night at the sight of her Dominant having a moment of weakness, or self-doubt, or — The Horror! — shedding a tear. Accept that
your Dominant is human, and respect the effort he exerts to be strong and confident for you 99% of the time.

3. Know him better than others. If your Dominant is having emotional difficulties, or even something as “insignificant” as a bad day at the office, you damn well better know it before his friends do.

4. Let him control things (including you). That is his responsibility. Yours is to obey.

5. Abide by the rules. Your Dominant constructs various rules, tasks, rituals, etc, for a purpose. That purpose may not always be obvious to you. It doesn’t have to be. Trust that he knows what he’s doing, and accept the fact that submitting to his rules on a daily basis is just  plain hard work. If you’re not willing to put in the work, then you should do some soul-searching and evaluate how deep (or even genuine) your submission really is.

6. Remember that he is yours. This is always reciprocal. Just as he expects your total devotion and commitment and fidelity, you have the right to expect those things from him. To be clear, this is not the same as taking your Dominant for granted. Just as he has to earn those things from you every day, so you also have to earn them from him every day.


7. Appreciate the work he puts into you, and let him KNOW that you appreciate it. Being a dominant (especially in a day-to-day rather than sporadic relationship) is damned  hard work. Let him know how much it means to you that he considers you worthy of all that work and direction and energy.

8. Be mindful of your respective positions in the D/s relationship. He is your Dominant. Can you be affectionately playful and impish? Yes; any Dominant who doesn’t  relish such from his submissive on occasion has some significant self-confidence issues. Sarcastic or willfully bratty? Not a good idea. Not a good idea AT ALL.

9. Give the same respect you get. If he shows you that, despite the way your relationship might look to the vanillas, he holds you in the highest respect, then return that  respect. If you come to the conclusion that he does NOT hold you in the highest respect, you might want to evaluate your relationship and possibly move on.

10. Above all else: he expects your submission to be whole and complete and without reservation, save for those things that the two of you negotiate as equals BEFORE you offer him your submission. Once you submit, he has full right and claim to ALL of you. You don’t get to cherry pick your submission. You don’t get to submit in just those areas where it’s convenient. You don’t get to submit just when you’re in the mood. There are no half-measures with your submission. If you can’t honestly say to yourself that you are all-in, then accept the fact that this means you’re not in AT ALL, and decide what to do about it.

Reblogged at the request of Follower @submissive-daydream.

You don’t get to cherry pick your submission

Must remember